8 Ways Individual Counseling Can Help You​

Are you feeling overwhelmed and in need of someone to talk to? Individual counseling and therapy services can offer a safe space for processing emotions, gaining insight into your behavior, managing stress levels, exploring relationships, or learning new skills. Led by trained professionals who specialize in areas such as marriage & family therapy, substance use disorders, depression & anxiety treatments among many others. 

Individual counseling and therapy can provide the personalized care that is often necessary to make life-changing improvements both physically and emotionally. Whether it’s finding healthier coping mechanisms or understanding why past behaviors are impacting current experiences, it will help you learn ways to work through your trauma and address your mental health issues. Working with a counselor improves self image. It also teaches you how to navigate emotions and stress. 

What is Individual Counseling?​

Individual counseling involves professionals helping clients understand how personal and medical history affect their goals, with sessions encouraging exploration of mental health issues to better assess how to achieve individual objectives. Goal setting is assisted by vital information discovered in multiple appointments, helping determine the best treatment for achieving these objectives.

With an increase in awareness and normalization of mental health care in society today, more individuals are feeling supported and comfortable reaching out for individual counseling. According to The National Institute of Mental Health, around 20% of adults had mental health issues in 2018-2019 – individual therapy services can provide invaluable support for these individuals. In fact, this was a 1% increase over 2019, when about 19% of US adults received some sort of treatment. Counseling is beneficial to everyone. It is a great way to improve quality of life by understanding how we react to stressful situations. Another vital role it plays is in learning how to navigate relationships. This includes the most important relationship we all have: the one with ourselves.

How Counseling Helps - Benefits of Receiving Individual Therapy​

Counseling can be beneficial for individuals experiencing any number of problems, from depression and anxiety to addiction and family issues. Working with a counselor can help individuals identify their goals, find solutions to difficult situations, identify blocks and stresses which may exist in their personal lives, and explore various options in order to move forward. It can also provide individuals with a positive opportunity to take control of their own life, build self-esteem and resiliency, reduce distress or problematic behavior, increase communication skills, and develop better relationships. 

Therapy helps individuals work through whatever challenges they need assistance with while nurturing their mental health. Receiving individual therapy can be an incredibly helpful experience that can give you the tools to live a happier, healthier life. Through this type of therapy, you will have the chance to develop a fresh perspective on the challenges in your life.

Develop a Fresh Perspective


Counseling provides us with an opportunity to gain clarity in our thoughts and behaviors. A counselor can help reveal the underlying issues that cause us to repeat certain mistakes. Through a combination of open dialogue and various techniques, like Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, we can start to better understand ourselves—our habits, triggers, and core motivations. This type of self-exploration is key to forming new positive thinking patterns — and consequently to forming healthier life choices. Utilizing counseling as part of the process enables us to get a fresh outlook on our way of living and permits a lasting shift in our mentality which will help guide us further down the path towards success.

Improve Coping Mechanisms

When life throws its curveballs, it can be hard to handle the pressures. From work-life balance and job performance worries to complicated relationships and grief, everyone has times when they struggle with coping. To come out on top of these difficult moments requires a strong set of tools for managing stressors – something counseling provides! Counseling helps you better understand yourself so that when tough situations arise, you’re prepared to tackle them. Additionally, your therapist may also provide tools such as relaxation techniques or mindfulness exercises that can help you cope with difficult emotions in a healthy way.

Decrease Stress

Stress affects health. The American Psychological Association found that 80% of Americans have physical symptoms. These include fatigue, headache, upset stomach, muscle tension. People also see changes in appetite, teeth grinding, libido changes and dizziness. Other symptoms include irritability, anger, nervousness, malaise, feeling on the verge of tears. Half of Americans report that they cannot sleep due to stress. Managing stress through individual therapy diminishes or eradicates these and other negative effects.

Improving Problem Solving Skills 

Some people experience significant stress when problems arise. Others overreact because they are unable to view the problem in context. Some others avoid the issue altogether. This can lead to larger problems down the line.

Counselors are trained at helping people evaluate issues more objectively so they can identify solutions that best fit their needs. By learning how to navigate challenging life events without relying on past coping mechanisms, individuals can develop problem solving skills which allow them to make decisions independently and confidently moving forward.

Develop Communication Skills 

Damaged relationships are often fixed by communicating better. Therapy teaches individuals strategies to improve communication skills. This includes speaking and listening to each other more openly, expressing emotions in a healthy way, understanding each other’s needs, and compromising.

Counseling also helps individuals build better relationships with their family, friends, coworkers and even strangers by learning the proper tools to do so.

Cultivating Self-Awareness

Let’s face it, it’s not easy to recognize when and where we fall short. Individual therapy sessions can include being comfortable reflecting and improving.

Being introspective is essential for personal growth and development. Counseling can help people gain an understanding of themselves and how their thoughts, feelings and behaviors affect those around them. With this knowledge, more mindful decisions can be made that are better aligned with our values and our true selves.

Live a Better Life

Perhaps one of the biggest characteristics of individual counseling is that it can equip you with the necessary tools live a more fulfilling life. This is done by focusing on what really matters most in life. By taking the time to talk through goals and dreams with an experienced professional, individuals can create action plans for achieving those goals while still managing daily responsibilities in an effective manner. This process often leads people to discover new passions or rekindle old ones which can make life much more enjoyable and rewarding overall.

Improving Physical Health

It’s no secret that physical and mental health are entwined. Stress can lead to a variety of physical ailments, from headaches and digestive problems to fatigue and insomnia. Counseling provides an opportunity to explore our thoughts, feelings and reactions in order to identify common triggers for stress-related conditions. Even better, many mental health professionals integrate relaxation techniques into their therapy sessions, helping to reduce physical discomfort as well. 

How does confidentiality work?​

Uncovering intimate details of life can be a challenging task and it is important to ensure that sensitive information remains private. In therapy, confidentiality helps you feel more comfortable discussing your experiences without fear of judgment or repercussion. It allows for trust between the therapist and patient while creating an ideal environment conducive to healing and growth.

Confidentiality is an essential factor of trust in any counseling relationship. In Frisco, Texas, the law protects this confidentiality so that clients can feel safe and open up as much as they need to. Confidentiality applies not only to what is discussed during sessions but also your basic information like names, contact information, and financial records. In accordance with Texas laws, counseling sessions and related records are confidential. Without the client’s written consent, no information disclosed during counseling may be revealed to any other person or agency (including employers). This includes medical providers, insurance companies and attorneys. The only exceptions to this rule include when there is a danger of imminent harm to self or others; mandated reporting of suspected child abuse; or a court order.

It is the client’s right to privacy that creates the safe space for exploring difficult issues and working on their goals. Clients can trust in the knowledge that any information they share with their therapist at Northstar Counseling & Therapy of Frisco, Texas will remain confidential and secure at all times except as required by law.

For more information on how confidentiality works with insurance billing, please see our FAQ page.

Having someone who understands your experience is invaluable when it comes making sense of tough times or exploring new ways of being in difficult relationships or scenarios.  It’s important to remember, you are not alone! Many people seek out and visit a counselor at least once in their lifetime. If you are struggling with any challenge in your life or you would like to seek out individual-counseling just to improve the quality of your life even more, you have come to the right place.

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Megan Corrieri

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